Frequently Asked Questions
Is my book private?
Privacy and text messages
What is a truth?
What's the difference between My Truth and A Truth?
We believe truth is one, but no one can hand it to you. What we see of it depends on where we stand: what we have lived, how aware we are, and how clearly we can see what actually is. As we grow, what is true for us grows with us. So truth here is not something we tell you. It is what you come to see.
My Truth is what is true for you, now, in your own words. It is personal, and it can change as you do. A Truth is wisdom that has held true for many people, across many lives. Some are both. Beneath all of them is Being, the part of you that does not change.
Is this therapy?
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There are no wrong questions.
How is this different from the Book of Us?
What does the Book actually do with what I write?
Do I have to answer everything?
What if I can't put my truth into words?
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At your own pace, in your own way.
Can someone else see my journey?
Is the microphone always listening?
What are the different journey types?
Can I cancel and get a refund?
What do you mean by Being?
Is this religious?
Agency…




Trust yourself, first.
How did you choose the areas of life?
We set 34 of the best-known ways of dividing up a whole life side by side, from coaching, psychology and therapy, wellness and research, philosophy, and the world’s spiritual and wisdom traditions, and counted which parts of life they name most often. Ten came out on top. We chose the eleventh ourselves, Play, Creativity & Recreation, because the count can’t see everything. The twelfth is Something else, left for you to name: something alive in your life that none of the others quite holds. Being sits at the center of them all. We are not saying this is the right list, or the only one. It is simply what we came up with. These are the 34:
Coaching
- The Wheel of Life (Paul J. Meyer)
- Tony Robbins, areas of life
- Stephen Covey, the four dimensions of renewal
- Hal Elrod, Level 10 Life
Psychology and therapy
- Sigmund Freud, love and work
- Alfred Adler, the life tasks
- Carl Jung, five factors for happiness
- Abraham Maslow, the hierarchy of needs
- William Glasser, the basic needs
- Carol Ryff, psychological well-being
- Martin Seligman, PERMA
- Edward Deci and Richard Ryan, Self-Determination Theory
- The biopsychosocial-spiritual model
Wellness and research
- Bill Hettler, six dimensions of wellness
- SAMHSA, eight dimensions of wellness
- Gallup, five elements of well-being
- VA Whole Health, the Circle of Health
- The World Health Organization’s definition of health
- Blue Zones, the Power 9
- The OECD Better Life Index
- Bhutan, Gross National Happiness
Philosophy
- Aristotle, the three kinds of goods
- Stoicism, Hierocles’ circles of concern
- Confucianism, The Great Learning
Spiritual and wisdom traditions
- Hinduism, the four aims of life
- Buddhism, the Noble Eightfold Path
- Christianity, heart, soul, mind and strength
- Islam, the objectives of the law (maqasid)
- Judaism, the three things the world stands on
- Sikhism, the three pillars
- The Medicine Wheel, the four aspects of self
- The chakras
- Ikigai
- Yoga, the five sheaths (koshas)